Safety and BDSM: Not another boring lecture

Let’s face it. For anyone who dabbles in BDSM, Safety is important but classes are dry and boring. Let’s change that by talking about what you really need to know. In this class, you will learn key safety items for traditional BDSM play like impact and rope, but also important points about breath, knife, cutting/blood and other types of edgier play. And find out about the one safety item that everyone should have but doesn’t.

But Did You Die? A discussion of edge play in BDSM

**TRIGGER WARNING: 

This class will discuss heavy edge play scenarios including water torture, blood play, needles, barbed wire and other nasty stuff.

This class will explore everything from the risks, the rewards and the intimate connections created through edge play. From needles and knives to blood play and waterboarding, edge play does not have a standard definition and varies from both person to person and scene to scene. Together, we will dive into the different styles of play as well as the importance of informed consent, physical and emotional safety and legal risks that may be present

Electric Games Violet wand 201

So you have become comfortable with your violet wand and now you feel you want to add more entertainment to your scene. Come and learn some new games you can play with your S type, and including group fun with consent of course.

Guide to DD/LG+Other Dynamics (101)

So you are new to the DD/LG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) dynamic, however as the LG you feel that connecting to a “babygirl” dynamic is challenging because we are a legal consenting adult who is afraid of being judged as being a baby girl or a little? Come and learn how A Midnight Angel came to terms with being a babygirl to a special daddy, but identifies as a Middle to another partner.

So how do I balance the world on my shoulders as I kneel perfectly?

Discussing the unrealistic expectations those whom serve place on ourselves. We will address how to acknowledge this, address it within ourselves, give ourselves grace and maintain a healthy balance. My desired outcome is we exchange ideas/methods of working smarter not harder as well. Anyone who puts service as a priority is welcome to attend.

Neo-Queer and Cyber-Queer Culture

**TRIGGER WARNING:

Discussions of

Ageism

Transphobia

Misogyny

Are you intrigued by the ever-changing landscape of queerness? Have you ever wondered about the significance of new flags and jargon? Maybe you find yourself questioning the relevance of these developments. Do you feel a desire to better understand the multitude of new pronouns? In a world where bridging the generation gap and establishing trust with today’s youth can be challenging, how can you ensure a sense of security for your own legacy?

In this class, Charlie Doll will elucidate on Neo and Cyber Queer Culture, and will be able to provide you with comprehensive answers to all these pressing questions and more. Through his captivating class, Charlie will dive deep into the complexities of these topics, offering valuable insights into the fascinating world of queerness today. Charlie will not only address your concerns but also help you gain a profound appreciation for the diversity and progress within the queer community. Get ready for an enlightening journey that will leave you feeling informed, empowered, and deeply connected to the rich tapestry of queer culture!

“It’s Just a Diaper!” The ABCs of ABDL

*TRIGGER WARNING:

Discussions of:

Ageplay

adult diapers

humiliation

degredation

ABDL is a broad term that encompasses a variety of types of play surrounding diapers. Whether you’re a newcomer to diaper play, or have been interested for a while, this class provides information for all. There is lots of heated discussion around this taboo fantasy that can make the ABDL scene hard to navigate. Charlie will provide some history, context, and reveal sexy play scenarios that will have you and your bladder bursting with excitement.

Silent Symphony: The Nonverbal Little Adventure Game

Silent Symphony is an interactive class that delves into the world of nonverbal communication. What happens when you as a bottom goes silent during play? What can you do to actively negotiate and communicate with your partner(s)? What caused you to go silent? Through engaging activities and exercises, folx will develop a deeper understanding of the power of nonverbal cues, body language, and expressive communication. We will discuss how to navigate the board game through the land of negotiations, the sea of scenes, the dark forest of dynamics and more. This class aims to enhance interpersonal skills, empathy, and self-awareness while fostering an appreciation for the richness of nonverbal communication.

Elegant Eats

Whether you’re hosting a lavish family event or attending a high-protocol event, mastering the art of preparing for formal dinners is essential. In this class, you will learn the skills and etiquette required to create an unforgettable dining experience. From menu creation and menu costing, to setting the table to selecting the perfect wine pairings and freshest food, this class is here to help guide you through every step, ensuring you exude grace and sophistication at any formal occasion. This class is here to help you elevate your dining game to new heights.

Dance the Razors Edge

In this workshop, you will learn how to use the sexy as hell straight razor! The intimacy, tapping into All the senses from, the sensations of the razor gliding across a throat, pussy or ass, hell anywhere on the body, the scents, the sounds of hair being severed and the trust between two people as they dance the razor’s edge!

Shaving can be fun, sexy and just a little dangerous! Blood optional;-)

Are You Willing?

I’ve learned, as one on the left side of the slash I too needed moments of surrender. To release that which no longer serves me or to embrace my strength in vulnerability. This is an opportunity to take that journey in a safe environment. This dance would not be surrendering or bottoming to me. It would be a dance of release and freedom for You! I am humbled, when another Top/Dominant has stood in the center of the room to experience and embrace their humanity. Are You Willing?

NEGOTIATING CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT (CNC)

***TRIGGER WARNING: Discussions may involve power imbalances, punitive action, and the appearance of ‘abusive’ behaviour & speech. Such behaviour may include the intentional disregard of traditional safe words, boundaries, & bodily autonomy. Discussions may also entertain the subject of ‘forced’ encounters including:

• Involvement of third parties without explicit agreement.

• Simulated abductions, abandonment, and sexual assault.

• Exploiting Fears & Phobias; intentional Gas-lighting.

• Unconscious activity & altered states.***

Consensual Non-Consent, or CNC, is an oft brought up practice, but rarely is the matter thoroughly discussed nor the potential concerns with this type of negotiation clearly identified.

LOVE THE WAY YOU LIE – THE ART OF EMOTIONAL SADOMASOCHISM & HUMILIATION

**TRIGGER WARNING:

Possible nudity and demonstrations of the subject matter. Discussions may involve power imbalances, punitive action, and the appearance of ‘abusive’ behaviour & speech. Such behaviour may include the intentional disregard of traditional safe words, boundaries, & bodily autonomy. 

Discussions may also entertain the subject of ‘forced’ encounters including:

• Involvement of third parties without explicit agreement.

• Simulated abductions, abandonment, and sexual assault.

• Exploiting Fears & Phobias; intentional gas-lighting.

• Unconscious activity & altered states. **

Do you love being called a slut or do you crave to debase others? Humiliation and Emotional Sadomasochism can be a tricky, yet rewarding endeavour, full of sexual energy to explore & pitfalls to avoid.

Join us as we discuss both the practical aspects of humiliation and debasement, as well as the psychological concerns you may face and suggested aftercare.

This is considered and advanced class and some of the practical demonstrations and subject matter may be triggering to some attendees.

We strongly encourage taking the companion class: NEGOTIATING CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT (CNC).

Walking The Line: How Safe is Safe Enough?

When I teach classes, be they kink or harm reduction oriented, I do so with the mentality of teaching people how to do extremely dangerous activities in the safest way possible. That being said I get off on walking the line of doing things in a riskier way and the trust that my bottom has in me not to take things too far and I know I am not alone in this.

In this lecture class, we will take a deep dive into informed consent and the level of risks that we can responsibly take on. Some of my bottoms may participate in sharing their experiences and viewpoints as well.

Sew On and Sew Forth: Skin Sewing/ Suturing)

**TRIGGER WARNING:
This isn’t a blood heavy class, but there will be some blood and a lot of sharps. **

This class is an in depth study of integrating “sewing” techniques into your kink!

We’re going to begin with the basics of universal precautions, and how to break the skin of our partners in the safest way possible. Then we get to our quilt-y pleasure! Where we will delve into “sewing” techniques that can be used for artistic expressions, sadistic sensations, beautiful bondage and peculiar predicaments. (Think fishing line, rubber bands, ribbons and all sorts more!)

This class will be a live demo of multiple techniques, but, for safety reasons, will not have specific practice time set aside for students. Don’t be spoolish and miss this class or you’ll be sew sad! Included in this class will be downloadable notes and links to suggested supplies.

Anatomy and Physiology of Kink

One of the most often questions as a beginner is “I have something to smack someone with, but what do I do with it”

This class is going to learn how the stuff that we do affects a human body. We will go over pain responses, impact play, subspace, and look at all the pieces of the body and let learn where it is safe to whack people, and where it isn’t.

Consent: What it is, what it isn’t, how to give it, and how to know for sure you’ve got it.

**TRIGGER WARNING:

possible reference to sexual assault **

The difference between kink and abuse is CONSENT. Some people think, if you are invited into someone’s place “for a night cap,” it means that they have consented to having sex with you.

Well, they haven’t.

If someone tells you they are kinky and like it rough. Is that consent for rough sex? No.

Lots of people think they have consent when they don’t. In this class we are going to go over what consent is and how to make sure that you don’t become a consent violator. Come find out how to make sure you have consent for everything you do.

Just Quillin’: Porcupine Quills for Sadists

**TRIGGER WARNING:

Demo will involve piercing of the skin, visible and audible demonstrations of pain, and visible blood.**

Piercing doesn’t have to just been metallic and medical. In this class we will discuss the details around using porcupine quills for piercing play. Class will include safety concerns, how to acquire quills, and techniques for play.

Staples, Sutures and Pseudo-Suturing

**TRIGGER WARNING:

Demo will involve piercing of the skin, visible and audible demonstrations of pain, and visible blood.**

Many of us at some point or another have had an accident and needed to have a wound closed via staples or stitches, but have you ever had your mouth stapled shut as a form of speech restriction? In this session we will discuss the use of skin closure technology specifically skin staple and sutures for kink purposes. We will also discuss pseudo-suturing, a form of skin closure that doesn’t employ sutures but is a relative safe and easy way to sew something open or closed or on 🙂

The Gift of No: Empowering Boundaries and Self-Care in a Power Exchange Relationship

A Power Exchange relationship is filled with constant demands and expectations, the ability to say “no” can be a precious gift to yourself and your partner. “The Gift of No” is a transformative workshop designed to help both In-Charge and Not-In-Charge individuals harness the power of this two-letter word to set boundaries, prioritize self-care, and live a more fulfilling and authentic life.

* Workshop Highlights

* Understanding Boundaries: Learn how boundaries serve as a powerful tool for self-expression within a Power Exchange relationship.

* The Art of Saying No: Teaching strategies for effectively communicating your boundaries from both sides of the slash while preserving the Power Exchange and reducing guilt.

* Saying Yes to Yourself: Learn how to make yourself a priority without feeling selfish as both an In-Charge and Not-In-Charge person.

* Overcoming People-Pleasing: Gain tools to break free from the cycle of constantly saying “yes” to your In-Charge or Not-In-Charge person.

* Navigating Difficult Conversations: Learn how to express your boundaries clearly and emphatically even in complex Authority Transfer situations.

* Building Resiliance: Discover how setting and maintaining healthy boundaries contributes to emotional resilience and stress reduction within your Power Exchange.

* Practical Self-Care: Explore various self-care practices that align with your needs and preferences within your Power Exchange relationship.

Contract Negotiations from the Right Side of the Slash

**TRIGGER WARNING:

This class will discuss will discuss topics that maybe triggering for people with Intimate Partner Violence **

Contracts are one of the most valuable and sadly most underutilized tools to help s-types protect themselves and ensure that both partners get what they want out of the relationship.

This class will give examples of talking points and negotiation tips including a fundamental Relationship Bill of Rights to use when starting negotiations.

Then how to turn that feedback and build a contract to establish clear guidelines for ensuring your health, well-being, and happiness.

Roleplay 101: Bringing Creativity back into Kink

**TRIGGER WARNING:

I will ask people to pair up with one or two and NEGOTIATE a quick roleplay. They will use their voices and words only. No physical touch if not a known person with whom they are matched. ALL may just observe and opt out of interactions.**

Madame Navia will explain the intricacies, joys, and art of roleplaying and how it can fit into YOUR scene. The who, what, and whys of playing a character will be reviewed and explained from a thespian and former professional disciplinarians point of view. Character and plot development will be explored to direct your scene.

This is an interactive course for the imaginative, the cruel, and those who love a good giggle while you play. Brief group interaction is encouraged, not required.

All levels of play experience are welcome.

Echoes of Desire: Mastering the Symphony in the Dungeon

In the dimly lit realm of pleasure and exploration, where the DJ’s melodies intertwine with the echoes of whips cracking and ecstatic cries, we delve into the artistry of the Sounds of the Dungeon. Join us in exploring how these auditory elements impact our headspace, guiding us through a sensual journey of pleasure.

Discover the power of selectively tuning in and out of different sounds, as we navigate the intricacies of our desires. By the end of this immersive discussion, you’ll not only be eager to weave your own symphony in the dungeon but also empowered to make inclusive music choices.

This enchanting dialogue transcends boundaries — it’s an invitation for all to partake in the allure of sound, enriching our collective experience in the dungeon or play space. Embrace the harmony of desires and the inclusive rhythm of pleasure.

Unleash your excitement for the art of sound, where every beat resonates with passion and inclusivity.

Real Doms Don’t Cry (Toxic Masculinity In Kink)

Real Doms Don’t Cry: Toxic Masculinity In Kink- From Doms who feel entitled to the bodies and submission of every femme sub they meet, to consent violations, to the image of Masters as cold stoic beings without feelings,

male expectations, privileges, limitations, and feelings of entitlement inherited from the vanilla world have spilled over into our kink lives with disastrous results.

We will explore the ways toxic heteronormative gender norms have hurt our community and how to uncouple them from our kinky lives.

Harmonizing Polyamory & Power Exchange Relationships

Join us to navigate the nuances of polyamorous power exchange with grace and understanding. Uncover the basics and how they intertwine, impact relationships in a supportive environment where all experiences are valued. Whether you’re looking to enhance your relationships, overcome challenges, or build a strong ethical foundation, you’ll leave equipped with the tools and confidence for a fulfilling journey.

Taste the Rainbow. Rainbow play for beginners

**TRIGGER WARNING:

Vomit play. This can trigger even the most seasoned of people.** 

DISCOVER THE RAINBOW. TASTE THE RAINBOW.

Rainbow play also known as puke play is an extreme edge play that can scare, squick and scar even the most advanced experienced players.

In this workshop, we will explore the psychology of this vulnerable inducing connective play and its relationship with Humiliation Degradation and Objectification. Some tips and tricks such as a “good, better and best food” list and foods to avoid, prepping not only the stomach but also your area, helpful tips for quick clean ups and the importance of aftercare for your relationship as well as your body.

And of course… make someone TASTE THE RAINBOW…

The Bites and Growls of Primal M/s

Master and slave relationships tend to follow an expected structure. However, in our practice of M/s, we chose to depart from the norm in favor of a more animalistic and energetic primal hierarchy. This is not M/s that is freely given, it is earned and conquered everyday. Where the slave is free to challenge and the Master must answer in kind.

Ash You Wish: Cigar and Ashtray Service (201)

Whether only caring for the cigar of a single special someone or serving every person attending a social, the ritual of cigar service is an especially desirable skill. Making it a safe and fulfilling experience can be complicated if you’re not prepared. This 201 class will provide the tools needed to negotiate cigar and ashtray services from both top and bottom perspectives.

Taking Anxiety out of Anticipatory Service

For many neurodivergent folks, anticipatory service is a tantalizing aspect of authority transfer that remains frustratingly inaccessible. However, ND individuals on both sides of the slash can not only partake in anticipatory service, but use it as an accessibility tool and a form of self and interdependent care within the dynamic. In this class, Rooster and their slave, Tora, will cover how to incorporate this type of service into ND Dynamics to better overcome barriers, affirm our roles, and achieve alignment.

Journey on the Bottom Side

What does it mean to be on the bottom side of the slash? Who are you and what do you actually seek? There are so many roles and opinions about them that it can be confusing to navigate. It can be easy to lose sight of your personal journey. Join us while we challenge traditional ideas about bottoming, submission and slavery. Let’s talk about how to define what you seek, what actually fills your spirit and how to find roles and dynamics that support your path.